What Is The Issue With Telling A Man His Penis Is Perfect?

These Men Are Never Satisfied With Anything Women Do Or Say

Everybody seems to be living their lives off of memes, tweets, and Tic Toks these days, and lately, I’ve come across memes, tweets, and Tic Tok videos that read “if your chick says your penis is perfect it’s not big”….and it appears to be crushing these men's feelings.

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So why are men so insecure when they are told their penis is perfect? What more do they want a woman to say? That’s literally the highest compliment they can receive about their penis.

If we say it’s too big we’re lying, if we say it’s too small our vagina is loose, if we say it’s perfect that means it’s not big. We can't win out here against men and their insecurities so don’t even bother giving them a rebuttal.

My theory is this, men (and women) are so used to getting their sex advice from porn, sexual abuse, rape culture, and using violent words to describe sexual activities with women, such as, “beat that pussy up” or “I’m gonna kill that pussy tonight” (and other disgusting phrases that keep me dry as the Sahara desert) that men are insulted when women actually enjoy painless, sensual, intense, goosebumps on the scalp, toe-curling, tear-jerking, orgasmic sex with them.

These women are also brainwashed to pretend to like what men see in pornstars that they think they want a “horse-sized dick”. Some women believe painful sex is how sex is intended and the result is what we have before us today, which is men thinking they have to leave a woman in pain or walking funny in order to have an earth-shattering sexual experience. Then we have women calling penises small when she's not in pain or doesn't feel any tearing. It’s absolutely disgusting how lost and confused grown people are about sex.

I don’t know what goes through woman’s minds when they put bottles, cans, and horse penises in their vaginas (more porn) but I personally want to enjoy every sexual experience. I should never be in pain, feel sick to my stomach, nor be uncomfortable in any way at any point. There…